As a student at the University of Michigan, I studied Greg Harden, ’78, MSW’81. I watched and took notes as he engaged and inspired U-M students from all walks of life, especially student-athletes and engineering students.
He was someone who made everyone around him better. Someone to admire. Someone to aspire to be like.
Later in life, I had the privilege of reconnecting with Greg, both professionally at the Alumni Association and personally at our church and in community circles. I continued to take notes as I watched him offer counsel and candor to those inside and outside of the Wolverine community. G Harden, as those who got to know him called him, made everyone who interacted with him feel seen and valued. I am honored to be included in that group.
He was there at my first official act as the new president and CEO of the Alumni Association. The U-M Club of Tampa Bay hosted Desmond Howard, ’92, and Greg for an event for Greg’s book, “Staying Sane in an Insane World.” Greg held a master class in storytelling, sharing memories of his early moments with Wolverines who are now household names. After the event, he spent time with everyone who wanted to talk with him, giving each person his full attention, curiosity, and energy.
As my roles changed at the Alumni Association through the years, there were few people who understood my personal evolution like G Harden. His joy at my professional progress was only eclipsed by the joy he had for me as a wife and parent.
Greg’s lessons of seeing and valuing the whole person, sharing his vulnerabilities, and staying curious are imprinted on many of us who carry his memory. Greg said we all need the four As: attention, affection, approval, and acceptance. Imagine what this world would be like if we all gave everyone the four As.
The value of mentors and those who inspire you cannot be understated. They help shape the people we become.
I hope you find inspiration inside the Winter 2024-25 Michigan Alum. From the life and legacy of the indelible James Earl Jones, ’55, HLHD’71, to Myra Beaudoin Bertrand, PhD’08, who scaled the world’s highest peak, Sid Meier, ’75, who changed the way video games are designed, and Jon Ferrando, ’88, whose love for U-M shines through in everything he does for his company, these exceptional Wolverines are great examples of how to live a purposeful life. Take your own notes, and look to those who help make you a better person. And wherever you go, Go Blue!
Ayanna McConnell is the president and CEO of the Alumni Association of the University of Michigan.
